Family has balance with "cohesion" and "adaptability" as someone has graphically expressed. Think also about the various concepts of family that can exist from the narrow one up to an extended one; then predicate or anticipate characteristics, but review, adapt, lax with an open eye and an open mind.
Addiction as an comprehensive illness including mind and values, pass by family, where some work can have to be done, like looking at yourself when thinking about your family and what brought you to what you are, not just for judging but for having a positive work of construction of yourself and live your life with hope rather than with anger, with peace, rather than suffering.
Need for schemes with some structure, some heterogeneity use genuine visual logic, but it could have been missed with the scientist time wanting, since centuries to demonstrate, define and explain everything. Like if everything could be fixed in absolute. Logic there are enough relative ones, making that any can be found for explaining any situation but none fit the absolute that could predicate any situation.
So back to basic of myth and structure, for purpose and cultural specification. Meanwhile the hypothesis of closure is what helps you to respect and care.